Our Valentine Weekend:
Friday- Food and Fun with Ross' family
Saturday- Hot lunch date with my husband and a little shopping, the boys went to my Mom and Dads, started painting our kitchen cabinets!!
Sunday- church, food and fun with Ross' family again, church again-Marriage class :)
Valentine's Gifts:
For Ross: card and day planner for work
From Ross: a card with 20 things he loves about me...some of these things I didn't even KNOW and we started dating 13 years ago!! That was fun...and a facial mask from Mary Kay :)....
I will have to say, I loved our lunch date, but my favorite part of the weekend was last nights Marriage Class at church. This week and next are for the Women. We are going to be encouraged and commanded to be the Helper and Submissive to our Husbands.
Me? Not a helper? Not submissive? I think I do pretty good...compared to a lot of other women.
How short I have fallen in these areas. Other women should not be my standard. God's commandments to me as a woman are my standards. They are commandments that are FULL of richness and will result in a thriving marriage. That is something to be excited about...
I wish I could have taped the class and posted it on here. I was so excited when we left :) I can't write everything we learned, but here is something that really struck my heart...
Our leader (the wife is teaching the part to the women, although the men are still with us) said that on Sundays she would cook a HUGE meal at lunch for her pastor husband. She just knew this thrilled his soul. She would exhaust herself "helping"/serving her husband...all the while, he would have been content with a ham sandwich. She never asked. He would have prefered a small lunch and more time talking about "work" or getting feedback from his wife...
Was her desire to serve her husband wrong? NO! But was she being what he needed her to be? NO!!
I wonder how much effort I put into things for Ross that he might not care so much about?? How much am I missing out on serving him in the areas that he REALLY NEEDS? Part of my homework from class, is to ask him what he needs...and to not get angry when he tells me :)!!
So, ask your husband..."How can I be a better helper to you?"....and yes, he is allowed to say sex ;)
We were blessed and look forward to being encouraged to strive for a godly and fulfilling marriage:)
Monday, February 16, 2009
Saturday, February 14, 2009
ALDI
I HAD to post the deals I got at ALDI today...many of my friends are experts at money saving when it comes to grocery shopping, but I haven't figured it all out yet. However, I do like to do some shopping at ALDI when I can...
There are many staple things that we can't buy there such as: diapers, wipes, the organic items that we are slowly switching too such as milks, peanut butter, eggs, etc...I prefer organic fruit and vegetables, but I have found it is so hit and miss. I do not want to go to 4 different stores each week. I am not stable enough to do that ahhahah....
Here is a run down of my items:
Three tubs Whole Rolled Oats(2 lbs 10 oz in each tub) $1.79 EACH (I am going to start soaking these overnight and I need lots of them since all 4 of us will be eating them)
Sparkling Grape Juice- $2.29
Grape Tomatoes- $1.49
Multi-pack 3 peppers- $2.69!!! (red orange and green)
Seven Packs of 1/2 pint Blueberries- .67 EACH!!!!!
Green Grapes (2 lbs!!)- $2.99
Facial Toner- $2.99
Cone Coffee Filters- $1.59!!
Bleach- $1.29
Whole Pineapple- $1.99
Romaine heart lettuce (3 hearts in a bag)- $1.99
Four Squash- $1.69!!
Four Zucchini- $1.69
Bag of Fugi Apples- $2.99
TOTAL= $38.55
For fruits and veggies you CAN'T beat this!! Well, at least I never have :) I was so excited. I laid everything on the counter for Ross to see and went over every price with him...:) I am quite pleased...;)
There are many staple things that we can't buy there such as: diapers, wipes, the organic items that we are slowly switching too such as milks, peanut butter, eggs, etc...I prefer organic fruit and vegetables, but I have found it is so hit and miss. I do not want to go to 4 different stores each week. I am not stable enough to do that ahhahah....
Here is a run down of my items:
Three tubs Whole Rolled Oats(2 lbs 10 oz in each tub) $1.79 EACH (I am going to start soaking these overnight and I need lots of them since all 4 of us will be eating them)
Sparkling Grape Juice- $2.29
Grape Tomatoes- $1.49
Multi-pack 3 peppers- $2.69!!! (red orange and green)
Seven Packs of 1/2 pint Blueberries- .67 EACH!!!!!
Green Grapes (2 lbs!!)- $2.99
Facial Toner- $2.99
Cone Coffee Filters- $1.59!!
Bleach- $1.29
Whole Pineapple- $1.99
Romaine heart lettuce (3 hearts in a bag)- $1.99
Four Squash- $1.69!!
Four Zucchini- $1.69
Bag of Fugi Apples- $2.99
TOTAL= $38.55
For fruits and veggies you CAN'T beat this!! Well, at least I never have :) I was so excited. I laid everything on the counter for Ross to see and went over every price with him...:) I am quite pleased...;)
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
Sunday, February 8, 2009
Bookcase
Tonight, Ross was putting together a new bookcase that we bought for the extra bedroom. When he was finished, we were talking back and forth about how good it looked and how happy I was that he got it put together! (He has been sick this weekend) A few minutes later, Ross was cleaning up the leftover mess and Luke walked in and said:
"Daddy, you do's awesome."
That is the sweetest thing ever :)
"Daddy, you do's awesome."
That is the sweetest thing ever :)
Tuesday, February 3, 2009
The Abundant Life of the Judy's
South Carolina holds many fond memories for me...
I had two favorite places to be...my grandmother BJ's or my Aunt Angie's.
My Aunt and Uncle, along with my two cousins, lived (and still do), in the country of SC. Farm, pigs, cows, goats, peacocks, chickens, emu, tractors, dirt bikes... just to name a few. It was so much fun... simple, relaxing, productive, up early (literally awoken by a rooster! ha), the day was always full. Full of life.
Not much has changed on the farm, as far as farm business goes. Still the same house. Still one bathroom that everyone shares, and you have to go through my aunt and uncle's room to get to it! We dont even think twice about it! Still the same furniture. The same smells. My uncle still has the same truck, good old Chevy.
As far as heart business goes, a lot has changed. God has grown, matured, ripened, and overflowed my Aunt and Uncles hearts for Him and for other people. Since I have "known" my Aunt Angie and Uncle Bud, I knew they loved God. But the awesome thing is, they don't love Him the same that they did 27 years ago. They love Him more. They love themselves less. They love other people more.
They live, according to us city-folk, in the middle of nowhere. Here in this deep country area (not even a town), they have planted a church! Homeward Bound Ministries is the name. They have devoted their lives and time and energy into providing a place for people of this area to come and worship in Spirit and in Truth. Would you believe that after building their worship building and rooms, they had to add small trailor-like buildings on the grounds, for added space? I would, because they are being obedient to Christ.
They don't live the "American dream". Never trying to keep up with latest fad and fashion. They don't have to have the newest car or the biggest house (especially when it comes to the number of bathrooms :).. They really don't care about these things.
They don't need to. They already have everything. They are living what most of us don't even know to dream about. The Abundant Life. It is awesome. It is worth being jealous about ;)
I am very proud of my Aunt Angie and Uncle Bud. They are an encouragement to my family, to live out the Abundant Life that God desires for us.
John 10:10
The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly.
I had two favorite places to be...my grandmother BJ's or my Aunt Angie's.
My Aunt and Uncle, along with my two cousins, lived (and still do), in the country of SC. Farm, pigs, cows, goats, peacocks, chickens, emu, tractors, dirt bikes... just to name a few. It was so much fun... simple, relaxing, productive, up early (literally awoken by a rooster! ha), the day was always full. Full of life.
Not much has changed on the farm, as far as farm business goes. Still the same house. Still one bathroom that everyone shares, and you have to go through my aunt and uncle's room to get to it! We dont even think twice about it! Still the same furniture. The same smells. My uncle still has the same truck, good old Chevy.
As far as heart business goes, a lot has changed. God has grown, matured, ripened, and overflowed my Aunt and Uncles hearts for Him and for other people. Since I have "known" my Aunt Angie and Uncle Bud, I knew they loved God. But the awesome thing is, they don't love Him the same that they did 27 years ago. They love Him more. They love themselves less. They love other people more.
They live, according to us city-folk, in the middle of nowhere. Here in this deep country area (not even a town), they have planted a church! Homeward Bound Ministries is the name. They have devoted their lives and time and energy into providing a place for people of this area to come and worship in Spirit and in Truth. Would you believe that after building their worship building and rooms, they had to add small trailor-like buildings on the grounds, for added space? I would, because they are being obedient to Christ.
They don't live the "American dream". Never trying to keep up with latest fad and fashion. They don't have to have the newest car or the biggest house (especially when it comes to the number of bathrooms :).. They really don't care about these things.
They don't need to. They already have everything. They are living what most of us don't even know to dream about. The Abundant Life. It is awesome. It is worth being jealous about ;)
I am very proud of my Aunt Angie and Uncle Bud. They are an encouragement to my family, to live out the Abundant Life that God desires for us.
John 10:10
The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly.
Thursday, January 22, 2009
Food for Thought
Long story short:
Luke has refused to eat dinner the past THREE nights, and breakfast this morning.
It is NOT because he is "picky".
It is NOT because he is not hungry.
As soon as our time at the table begins, it is almost as if he longs to hear the words, "You may not have anything else other than what is on your plate, and if you are done, then you are done until the next meal." I can almost see it in his eyes : "Let the games begin!"
Firstly, his Daddy hates losing at any game. Secondly, I am Daddy's biggest fan :)
Tasha V. and Traci R. we have implemented your family friendly "food rule". IF YOU DON'T EAT IT NOW, THEN YOU CAN EAT IT FOR THE NEXT MEAL...
Luke is eating grits for dinner tonight :(
Luke has refused to eat dinner the past THREE nights, and breakfast this morning.
It is NOT because he is "picky".
It is NOT because he is not hungry.
As soon as our time at the table begins, it is almost as if he longs to hear the words, "You may not have anything else other than what is on your plate, and if you are done, then you are done until the next meal." I can almost see it in his eyes : "Let the games begin!"
Firstly, his Daddy hates losing at any game. Secondly, I am Daddy's biggest fan :)
Tasha V. and Traci R. we have implemented your family friendly "food rule". IF YOU DON'T EAT IT NOW, THEN YOU CAN EAT IT FOR THE NEXT MEAL...
Luke is eating grits for dinner tonight :(
Wednesday, January 21, 2009
Luke Got a Job
Luke: Mama, I goin' to work...
Mama: OK son, be careful and I'll see you in a little bit.
Luke: I love you.
Mama: I love you, too.
Luke: I goin' to miss you.
Mama: I'm going to miss you, too!! :)
Luke: I need kiss.
Mama: "kiss"...be careful driving...and don't loose your briefcase!(tool box in hand)
Luke: MAMA, I NOT goin to DRIVE, I ridin my SCOODER (scooter) !!! :)
This brought the sweetest smile to my heart this morning. It also holds me accountable to continue to love my husband in front of my children. He sees me kiss Ross every morning, tell him I love him, and occasionally tell him that I will miss him :) He watches and absorbs everything we do here at home...I hope he will kiss his wife all the time and love her one day like his Daddy loves me ;)
Mama: OK son, be careful and I'll see you in a little bit.
Luke: I love you.
Mama: I love you, too.
Luke: I goin' to miss you.
Mama: I'm going to miss you, too!! :)
Luke: I need kiss.
Mama: "kiss"...be careful driving...and don't loose your briefcase!(tool box in hand)
Luke: MAMA, I NOT goin to DRIVE, I ridin my SCOODER (scooter) !!! :)
This brought the sweetest smile to my heart this morning. It also holds me accountable to continue to love my husband in front of my children. He sees me kiss Ross every morning, tell him I love him, and occasionally tell him that I will miss him :) He watches and absorbs everything we do here at home...I hope he will kiss his wife all the time and love her one day like his Daddy loves me ;)
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